Better Life philosphies/Live Life Happily with IBS using A.C.D.F.M.S 6 step Technique

  These days I have been seeing lot of questions on social platforms related to dilemma of young people of getting attracted to their cousin sisters/ brothers or sometimes even to their siblings. Most of answers of these questions are given in very neutral tone rather in coward way with fear of facing criticism in name of modernity. They start with "Nothing is good or bad, it person's perspective to have such desire if its basis is mutual. These kind of answers attracts most likes/up votes. Whenever i read such answers i always feel to show light to all such souls who are just facing turbulence of emotions in young age & need a very honest advice which can make or break their life & future of country. Why??? A country's progress is decided by what are values which these youngster hold or follow.  Lord Krishna once spoke to Arjuna that -”It’s very important to make your younger ones aware of good, bad & evils things of life. They must be under strong supervisio...

This is one of most common confusion faced by younger generation these days. Quite obvious as its well evident fact that rate of marriage's failure has increased in recent years (>35%). Some marriages ended badly in unconditional compromises, litigation even imprisonment also.  So, we are now forced to think if one should stay single or go for this big decision....... I am putting a summary below for a question asked to me by a 25 yr old guy - " Is it harder to stay single beyond a certain age? I am a 25 year old Indian guy. I am at the point where friends and family expect me to find a girl, get married and settle down. The problem is, I don't want to. I have quite a few big dreams. " Well it’s not harder to stay single at point of age. So even when you are 65 or 70. Let take an example- one fine day suddenly you got heart attack… Now people who are so independent, strong, earning well, love to owe big house definitely they will be at that point alone. Why?? Simpl...

  Marriages again :) ... Yeah & this time we will discuss if marriage in same sex has any advantages over traditional marriage between 2 opposite sex persons. To start with, I would like to state that its completely an individual’s choice to choose a partner for getting married but few things were/are & will remain to be more correct choices according to nature. For example its quite usual to work in morning & sleep in night but some people have more nocturnal    habits i.e. they remain more active in nights than morning /afternoon. So there are no right/wrong choices in short term but if we try to look things in more broader/long terms then some choices turn out to be the best choices & Marriage is no exception.. Marriage is commitment between 2 souls on earth who have taken individual physical bodies during their journey on earth & have decided for a life long commitment staying together for a common goal. Somewhere they had similar perspective towar...

  Hello, I am back with another important topic to discuss today & again it’s about institution called Marriage. Who made it? Are marriages made in heaven or were they created on earth? Whose coined this idea men or women?? Interestingly all these question are trying to find a initial evolution point of long term commitment. But is this really important, why such questions are now in everybody's mind today? Isn't marriage slowly becoming obsolete concept? The answer is yes and no. In India till 1980-85(s), men used to believe that Marriage idea was invented by women only who just wanted men once engaged, not to stray outside once committed & also to deter from their habit of looking for casual fun. It made them more responsible as person etc-2 . But as more & more women have started to realize importance of self-earning & independence, scenario has now completely reversed.  Slowly men have been exposed of more being vulnerable when comes to cooking skills, taki...

  I am writing this blog to help guys who are still looking out for a suitable match!! Marriage - It is a huge commitment of life & without understanding its core concept or basic needs puts it on verge of failing badly. Indian society is in transition phase, we are moving slowly but gradually towards adapting western concepts of marriage & all Indian customs seems to be old fashioned ,unnecessary at present time. But still we have not completely shed off every concept & when it comes to marriage, folks prefer to get married following all customs, rituals of their respective religion. So today i am going to say something which basically fits in Indian & western culture as well. We all know at least something about sun signs or moon signs. Each month has some specific sun sign attached to it  & moon sign for a person is decided by his/her natal chart. Thumb rule is to go for woman who has either Cancer/Capricorn in either sun or moon signs. Yes, both of thes...

Quora पर यह प्रश्न मुझसे लगभग १ साल पहले रेखा कुमारी ने पूछा गया था।   मेरा जवाब यह था - सब पुरुषों के विचार एक जैसे तो नहीं होते पर मैं यह अपनी स्थिति बता देता हूँ| मुझे दुःख भी होता है और ख़ुशी है ,और हाँ दुःख ज्यादा होता है :) |  क्यूंकि मेरी पत्नी खाना काफी ज्यादा लाजवाब बनती है इसलिए इस स्वाद की मुझे हर समय याद आती है | वैसे तो मुझे पूरा खाना बनाना आता है पर जब वह रहती हैं तो मैं सुबह सिर्फ चाय के बनाने के लिए किचन में जाता हूँ या हेल्प ही थोड़ी बहुत |  इसलिए मेरी पत्नी के जाने के बाद ४५% समय किचन में देना होता है |  मुझे भी खाना बनाना पसंद है पर काम के जिम्मेदारियों के साथ यह काफी मुश्किल हो जाता है | घर में अकलेपन का एहसाह भी काफी ज्यादा होता है | ख़ुशी इसलिए महसूस होती है की में अपने नियमो का पालन अच्छे से कर पता हूँ - जैसे ध्यान,योग, व्यायाम ,समय से पूजा पाठ इत्यादि |  रोज़ स्कूल नहीं जाना पड़ता , और वीकेंड्स पर खरीदारी में समय नहीं लगता |  ख़ुशी इसलिए भी होती क्यूंकि मेरी पत्नी को कुछ टाइम के अपने मइके में आराम मिल जाता है और अपनी पसंद की...

4 mins read Normal human heartbeat range is 70-80. My heart stays in the 60-65 range. I always thought of this as a weakness.  As grew up and started taking workouts more seriously, I discovered that I can continue longer while running, skipping, jumping as my low heartbeat gave me the edge to maintain normal  BP  for a longer period(Athletic stamina). Getting in action is the most important part of self-discovery and without it, our views and interpretations are like wild waves.                                                source pexel.com I remember as a kid, I was always God-lover. As I grew- in my teenage I became God-fearing as I was a little mischievous and the less focused person at that time, not wholeheartedly listening to my parent, teachers & later while pursuing engineering, I became an Atheist.  When I was searching for a job, I s...

 मेरे  साथ ऐसा दिनाक १२-०२-२०१२ में हुआ था | इस दिन हम लोग मेरी शादी करके वापिस आ रहे थे सुबह कानपुर से मैनपुरी यानि अपने घर |  सब लोग खुश थे क्यूंकि लगभग सारे कार्येक्रम ठीक से पूरे हो गए थे और बस घर पर पहुंच कर कुछ और रस्में करनी बाकि थी |  मैनपुरी(घर) से कुछ 18 किलोमीटर पहले ही ड्राइवर जो गाड़ी चला रहा था उसका ध्यान कुछ भटक गया क्यूंकी वह पापा और मेरे भाई(जो फ्रंट सीट पर बैठे थे) के बातें सुनने में भूल गया को सामने से एक मेटाडोर आ रही थी और जब वाह सिर्फ ३ फ़ीट की दूरी रह गयी तो मेरी नज़र ड्राइवर पर पड़ी और फिर मेटाडोर पर जो एकदम सामने थी | पीछे सीट पर मैं बिच में था और मेरी मम्मी बाईये और मेरी पत्नी दाहिने और ,दोनों सो रही थी पर मैं जगा हुआ था | इतने पास मेटाडोर आते देख कर मेरे तो जैसे प्राण सुख गए थे और मेरी आवाज़ मुहं में रह गयी |  उस दिन मैंने चत्मकार होते देखा था , लगभग २ सेकंड के अंदर ही मेरी भाई ने ड्राइवर का स्टीयरिंग पूरी तरह से बाईये ओर  घूमा दी और फिर लगभग आधे सेकंड में  दाहिने  ओर , वह मेटाडोर सिर्फ कुछ इंच की दुरी से हो कर...

शादी तब सफल होने लगती है जब आप (पति-पत्नी) एक दूसरे की छोटी-२ बातों को बिन कहे समझ ने लगे या फिर एक दूसरे के कुछ आदतों में थोड़ा सा सहयोग करके खुश रहना सीख जाये |  मेरे साथ हुए एक दिलचस्प वाकया के बारे में कुछ बताता हूँ | मुझे याद है उस दिन  वैलेंटाइन्स   दिवस था और हर किसी की तरह हम दोनों के मन में कुछ खास नहीं बस घर पर किसी ऑनलाइन साइट से खाना का आर्डर दे कर एन्जॉय करने का मन था|  जब मैंने 8:३० pm कोशिश की कुछ आर्डर कर लू तो - सेवा उपलब्ध नहीं का संदेश आ रहा था ,हर जगह से स्विग्गी,जोमैटो,फ़ूड पांडा | मेरी पत्नी का छोले कुलचे खाना का मन था बहुत सो मैं कोशिश कर रहा था की कुछ आर्डर हो जाये पर कहीं से बात नहीं बनी 8:50pm तक भी, एक जगह आया भी तो २ प्लेट के 400rs दिखा रहा था जो सामान्य दिनों में 240-250rs होता है |  मेरी पत्नी कुछ ऐसी है की वे बहार खाना पसंद तो करती हैं पर फ़िज़ूल खर्चा नहीं |  सो यह मैं अपनी पत्नी को यह बता कर अपने काम में मशगूल हो गया | वे भी थोड़ी निराश से हो गयी | मेरे ऑफिस का काम अभी खतम नहीं हुआ था |  9:15pm बजे गया और फिर मेरी ...

4mins read From my childhood, I was always amazed by the presence of the sun and moon in the sky. My Grandmother's stories and lories(lullaby) were centered around them especially the moon fascinating me even more about some special purpose. So in these corona times when there is the turbulence of emotions we need to understand the power of each of these planets and they can be used to get better healing results. Most people think and pray to God imagining that they are located somewhere in the sky or in the worship places or in their hearts. Few people know that "Sun" and "Moon" are no less than God.  We can say that anything which is going to happen for sure no matter what is day and night in the day we get sun and in the night we get the moon. So even if it is a rainy day we still know they are behind those clouds. Some days moon doesn't appear at the night due to its own transition cycles of a new moon to the full moon. Human body is 70 percent made up o...

Ever thought - Why it feels different at "Home" versus "Office" versus "Stadium" versus "religious places" versus a "Mall"? Its vibrations!! image source: Shutterstock We are constantly generating and exchanging vibrations with each other without knowing it. For example -In marriage, a person may be fed up with his/her spouse's habits but on birthday opts to give a big gift like car/house/jewelry to please him/her but vibes given subtle are:- " You are so messed up". " I wish you I could give honest feedback ever." " You need to improve a lot." " Why you are always like this. " Then this is not going to do any good impact on his/her state and will make that big gift completely useless. The same thing applies to Food as well for our vitals to remain normal. Good health and longevity and immunity are automatically created when food prepared ...

2 min read Reading books is a great habit that yields amazing long-term benefits! There are certain books that are not written normally but with the help of a psychic medium/ gifted human. These people are blessed with supernatural abilities to catch super powerful high frequencies power & they can act as a radio for either 1 or 2-way communication in these higher realms. They guide humanity on earth to adopt universal principles to live life. This technique is known as Automatic writing. The gifted person before attempting automatic writing prays for his/her guidance during this act from any negative energy/intervention. He/she holds the pen and after meditation for some time is able to establish the link to the divine souls. They send thought to make the pen move to create words.   With consistent practice, these words become more clear and start forming sentences. Sentences become paragraphs, paragraphs become chapters and chapters become a book. ....... ....... ...

5 mins Read Have you experienced helplessness during unwanted & daily arguments sometimes with your boss, spouse, or just anyone?  I was experiencing similar kinds of situations till 2015-16. I considered myself a successful software programmer, family, and a fit person. But inside I was feeling a lot of frustration because I was not able to focus on work due to constant differences with my boss.   At home, almost every weekend I had an argument with my wife over something. I remember this argument frequencies use to increase further at the home town with my parents.   I was clueless about what to do and how to find something to fix. Is marriage made for humans just to suffer in this world? In 2012 I was happily married and became a father in Aug 2014.  So I use to think I am doing my diligence to my existence & going per the laws of nature. Where am I wrong?  And this further became worse in 2016 June when I came on the verge of getting separa...

3 mins read Remember as a kid-  Happiness was so natural to each of us and no matter how hard our day was we had cheerfulness and hope alive for our next day. We felt so energetic and full of health.  Now where it is gone??   This is because during  our young years  we are more curious and soul-conscious than body-conscious.  Some people during 45-50 still look young, energetic, dynamic, and happy- How??  It is not like they don't have success all time or great family life Or they didn't face challenges... but they either have very strong beliefs or never forget to connect with their inner self every day.                           source: pexel.com  Soul consciousness is an art of living life focusing on the most important aspect of human existence - "Soul" or "Spirit". From Day-1 of our earth journey as soon as we open our eyes in this physical world we start identifying ourselves a...