Should we marry or stay single whole life?
This is one of most common confusion faced by younger generation these days. Quite obvious as its well evident fact that rate of marriage's failure has increased in recent years (>35%). Some marriages ended badly in unconditional compromises, litigation even imprisonment also. So, we are now forced to think if one should stay single or go for this big decision....... I am putting a summary below for a question asked to me by a 25 yr old guy -
Well it’s not harder to stay single at point of age. So even when you are 65 or 70. Let take an example- one fine day suddenly you got heart attack… Now people who are so independent, strong, earning well, love to owe big house definitely they will be at that point alone. Why?? Simple at 65–70 parents would have departed to higher abode. Your bro(s), sister(s) are living separately in different houses, cities or countries, may be married or single most probably.
So just thinking of it …. after how many days your death information will reach to somebody or anybody & what if you are living in place in India where there is not even house help to do daily chores?? Who will discover it? May be anyone after 2–3–10–15–20 days or whatever you can take random no. Now if one doesn’t even care about it no problem… I tell story beyond it. While most may find this a tough story you believe… Once you die you will reach a place in between earth & heaven (please excuse me, i am trying to be being generic here) or being teleport-ed to a newer land where you have many more dimensions to explore. You know first thing what you encounter there…. Your own family members who have departed before & not few, many-3 of them eagerly waiting for you. Suddenly you find yourself occupied by 50–100–200 people who are just eager to shower lot of blessings & love on you- you become canter of attention for every one of them who are enjoying your reunion!! It will be really difficult to write in words the feelings you will be having at that moment………….. because they are your own people whom you have known from ages or eons. You meet your 1000 years old friend & many of them. Now any sane person will be thinking why i explaining all this??? Because even what you say end is again a beginning of new journey. But we are talking here just to live single.
Do you recall Steve jobs last words?? Please go through that video.
It’s really easy to say or write in words then really lively alone. Parents who are more wiser than us .. know this when they are gone you should have somebody to be looked after. I know it’s really difficult or big conundrum to find a true love. But all they are concerned is about you & your wellbeing. They are not stereotyped or following old society rules or whatever. You see people were lot happier earlier than current & this situation is only increasing as more & more people just want freedom & nothing else .. This is nothing bad in it but life has purpose & to belong to family is also one of them, we all here are part of family having bros, sis,cousins,nephews,niece -lol….. At end what matters is how much you loved, how much you cared & how much you sacrificed for those who belong to you……
You have still at least 5 yrs. or so to experiment that you really want to do great this for society or for yourself. 5 years is ample amount of time to explore it & know yourself. If you are one of those rare souls who are chosen to do all great things - you purpose will get automatically revealed to you. Otherwise you can still settle for marriage & keep pursuing your best efforts for society.
BhagwatGita also says that- There are many-2 paths to reach a destination. The easiest being part of family & still contributing best what you can (if you have really good will) … Rest all are much more tougher part & chances to fall are much more. So you have still choices & time :).
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