Is it ok to have love affair with your sibling/cousin?

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These days I have been seeing lot of questions on social platforms related to dilemma of young people of getting attracted to their cousin sisters/brothers or sometimes even to their siblings.

Most of answers of these questions are given in very neutral tone rather in coward way with fear of facing criticism in name of modernity. They start with "Nothing is good or bad, it person's perspective to have such desire if its basis is mutual. These kind of answers attracts most likes/up votes. Whenever i read such answers i always feel to show light to all such souls who are just facing turbulence of emotions in young age & need a very honest advice which can make or break their life & future of country. Why??? A country's progress is decided by what are values which these youngster hold or follow. 
Lord Krishna once spoke to Arjuna that -”It’s very important to make your younger ones aware of good, bad & evils things of life. They must be under strong supervision to develop strong moral values & ethics which in turn will build a strong character of whole society rather than to have a generation which just knows how to satisfy needs for money & don't have clue to deal with uncontrolled/confused emotions. 

"With self-control,constant practice & sacrifice we develop greatness of character"
These are very strong lines & if one sticks to them, he/she will upturn all the major adversities of life without a major undesirable after effects. 

Women & children always needs to be protected as they are what society transforms into. Eons ago when few important rules were made to live happily on earth, women protection shield were created by embracing her with relations like father, brother(s) etc. apart from her spouse who will enter only after certain years/interval in her life. So the idea was that she feel protected in own home or at relatives one. Also it's vice-versa i.e. if a  girl/woman starts feeling attraction towards her sibling/cousin,its not like you have assume that everything is OK. It should be responsibility of person on other side to make her understand what is right-wrong. 

A society which allows liberation on any kind of relationships in terms of sex, marriage, romance is doomed to get perished with time. It will consist of human being who just look like human but have hidden wild emotions like animals & no mercy in heart. They in their blindness for lust/money/ luxury/ comfort will justify any obscure act in name modernism /forward thinking. Ever thought why animals are born to live without clothes or why there is no marriage concept in animal kingdom??? I will answer in my next blog.  

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