Did men or women coined the concept of marriage on earth?

 

Hello,

I am back with another important topic to discuss today & again it’s about institution called Marriage.

Who made it? Are marriages made in heaven or were they created on earth? Whose coined this idea men or women??

Interestingly all these question are trying to find a initial evolution point of long term commitment. But is this really important, why such questions are now in everybody's mind today? Isn't marriage slowly becoming obsolete concept?

The answer is yes and no. In India till 1980-85(s), men used to believe that Marriage idea was invented by women only who just wanted men once engaged, not to stray outside once committed & also to deter from their habit of looking for casual fun. It made them more responsible as person etc-2 . But as more & more women have started to realize importance of self-earning & independence, scenario has now completely reversed. 

Slowly men have been exposed of more being vulnerable when comes to cooking skills, taking care of their own, cleanliness ,doing all household jobs or taking care of toddlers, grandparents etc. Obviously these all things were taken by a lady formally who used to be home maker. All these responsibilities explained above require commitments which is also needed in a job but very important quality who all these activities have in common is "service with no return in expectation".  

A women is said to a tender creation of God who is very strong & beautiful at heart. These characteristics enable her to be a care taker by birth, a forgiver. Its greatness of nature only when a baby is born, joyous mother is filled with milk in breast for her baby's nourishment.  There is no denying that men also have ability to give love but its far & far less when it’s compared with a woman. So for a great, successful society her contribution matters & it applies everywhere. Without her everything is incomplete its whether home/outside.

Lately in the glitter of money, each & every boundary is getting lost. Slowly world is moving towards first goal of having a successful career & independence, procrastinating rest all qualities for later which the most important reason of failures of marriage.   

I am not supporter that one should remain stick to kitchen or working outside on gender basis, but  no comprises should be done when its comes to understanding some ground rules for the entity you have taken birth & sticking to it through your life. Rest all are adjustments & its does requires a big heart to do that with a smile :)