Understanding how to use Soul consciousness in solving practical life problems!!

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Have you experienced helplessness during unwanted & daily arguments sometimes with your boss, spouse, or just anyone? 

I was experiencing similar kinds of situations till 2015-16. I considered myself a successful software programmer, family, and a fit person. But inside I was feeling a lot of frustration because I was not able to focus on work due to constant differences with my boss.  

At home, almost every weekend I had an argument with my wife over something. I remember this argument frequencies use to increase further at the home town with my parents.  


I was clueless about what to do and how to find something to fix. Is marriage made for humans just to suffer in this world?



In 2012 I was happily married and became a father in Aug 2014. 


So I use to think I am doing my diligence to my existence & going per the laws of nature. Where am I wrong? 


And this further became worse in 2016 June when I came on the verge of getting separated from my wife after a very serious and violent fight. 


Initially, I felt whatever happened was good for both to continue to separate. But slowly something inside me was dying. I was thinking I am free now but not happy at all.


I was not talking terms with my wife/son for the last 6-7 months. I started accepting that it is over and have to get into a new relationship to feel better, so I registered on some matrimonial sites again for time to pass.


In Sept 2016 my phone rang at 10 pm, it was the mommy of a beautiful girl who was separated in 1 year of marriage but again looking for marriage. 


She asked me "Son-what to do next). Are you ready my daughter likes you and her next question was - 


Are you divorced now - This word broke from inside, I felt pain and cried inside. I replied- "No Aunty & said Sorry- I think I won't be able to do get divorced Thanks for showing interest, bye & take care", gave her best wishes, cut the phone later. I de-registered from all sites again. 



I had this awakening moment & decided to forgive everything, everyone, and restart my relationship again this time giving my 100% with no expectation & selflessness.




We(me & wife) meet again nervous and fearful on Oct' 16th and after that never looked back. 


We still fight, argue but there is a different level of understanding altogether. Now the idea is to become better at understanding each other rather than just finding fault. 

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Luckily I was listening to soul-conscious concepts from Bk Shivani during those difficult times but in reality, first I actually started using unknowingly 8 powers of it & felt like I had Deja-vu of my loving capabilities.


It is a fact if we focus on something for straight 3 weeks it starts becoming our habit. Only then we can have this knowledge retention in us. 

Soul consciousness means constantly doing any task focusing mainly on our "spirit" or "soul" growth than just material benefits/wins.

So it about our self-acceptance, intro-inspection, patience, forgiveness, compassion, care, empathy to a simple or complex /tricky situation of life. 

It doesn't mean we stop doing mistakes, it also doesn't mean we start accepting and tolerating everything but it means we make use of power to discern and decide in the most correct ways and are able to decide when to accept a situation and when to face it. 

Again -"Nobody is perfect here and never will be". We are Mannequin of mistakes and life is our opportunity to grow". 


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